Nov 10, 2017

4 GIVE WHAT YOU NEED

A yearning for more.
We all have a desire to be loved, respected and valued. How those desires manifest to each of us may defer dependent on our love Language. The set of rules we ourselves secretly decide is the interpretation of what we are asking for and that tells us, yes, this is the one. 

There is nothing wrong with wanting more, desiring to be cherished and live in a way that lift us to our highest and best selves. However life is much about reciprocity thus we must ask ourselves, what do we have to offer? How can I lift another, honor value and respect them? If in the light of that questioning you experience difficulty finding the answers then you have work to do for you cannot ask for what you cannot give. 

It's important that you know and fully understand the value of what you bring to the table. Then and only then do we have a right to set the standard on how we want to be treated because it is the same standard by which we will treat others.

Nov 9, 2017

8 ONE DAY AT A TIME

Blessings
Everyday we must find at least one thing to be thankful/grateful for. 
We owe it to ourselves to keep our hope alive 
Our faith strong
Our spirit fed
Our mind focused
Our soul soothed
We must do it for ourselves
We must do it for each other
Because we are WORTHY
Because we are ENOUGH
Because we are LIFE
If you are overwhelmed and cannot lift up yourself, lift another & another will lift you up
We are each others keeper
We are each others champion 
Do it because
Do it instinctively
Do it unconditioned

By D.S.B.S.Rhapsody 

Oct 26, 2017

6 CHANGE, LIFE'S CONSTANT


Change is constant, a certainty. Most fear change however nature continually demonstrates the valued necessity in its repeated yearly transformations. We need to heed Nature's lessons about change and embrace it rather than soak in resistance for that which is inevitable.



AUTUMN IN TORONTO CANADA BY D.S.B.S.Rhapsody

Oct 24, 2017

8 BEING STILL IN THE NOW

I am, 
enjoying 
Being
In the Now

D.S.B.S.Rhapsody

Oct 10, 2017

4 THE BITTER TASTE OF BETRAYAL ALSO HAS A SWEET AFTER TASTE

Betrayal of any kind leaves a bitter taste in your mouth, your heart and your spirit. It's sting last long and it's venom colors how you see the world, how you view others and how you trust. The moment you come into knowing, it is the worst feeling, you are hurt deeply, worst it causes you to question your own choices and judgment. These feelings can undermine your belief in yourself and erode your confidence if you let it.

UNDERSTANDING THE BETRAYOR 
What you must understand about the person(s) that betray you is, that is how they function, their thoughts and actions are a function of their "normal." It goes like this: 

Their calculated choice to not tell the truth about something they saw/witnessed and heard is about their self-preservation. They do not care about helping you or standing up for truth for the sake of truth by doing what is right. They care about protecting their self and garnering any opportunity to fly under the radar and be precieve as something other than they are in order come out the Victor. You are not a factor in that reasoning.

You cannot reason with the unreasonable that is another's ethos and philosophy because excuses and unreasonableness is how they govern their lives. There is nothing you can say or do to get them to be accountable for using you as a stepping stone for what they deem an opportunity for betterment.

TASTING THE SWEET AFTER TASTE OF BETRAYAL
All is not lost when you have been betrayed. Once you get over the shock and the hurt there is a sweet after taste laced in the lessons of that experience. You may question the merit of my philosophical way of seeing betrayal however if you really think about it you will see my point. After all, if Judas could betray Jesus Christ the Almighty who are you a mere human? I say use it to make you stronger and wiser. 

Here are some of the benefits: 
  • You are less burdened because you no longer in the company of some who is untrustworthy.
  • You learn not to invest in others that are not invested in you.
  • You learn to truly understand your worth and your value.
  • You become smarter about choosing whom you align yourself with.
  • You are now better equipped at SEEing and hearing what is left unsaid.
  • You learn to sharpen your discernment.
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