Jan 14, 2018

4 HAVE YOU CONSIDERED YOUR OWN BOUTS OF INCONSIDERATIONS?

Blessings....
I am lying on my bed here "soaking". I am thinking about nothing in particular while I post some of my photographs from fall to ignite some assertive colors into a some what grey day. As I post the last of 3 photos a question filter through my mind.  Have you considered your own bouts of inconsiderations? Hmmmmm is my immediate response as a thought occurs to me. 'This contemplation of owned inconsiderations' is "share" worthy.

TRAIN OF THOUGHT
Often times we dwell on the hurts and betrayals we've suffered. The inconsiderations we are sometimes subjected to. In trying to cope with these experiences we share with others who are willing to listen (without judgment - we hope) the experiences relaying the depths of our hurts to garner support, understanding, empathy and some strategic skills to help us deal with the impact and residual effects. All of which is healthy because it is paramount to moving forward with our lives and NOT becoming STUCK in pain.

However in our quest to heal, to get over, to triumph we can get self-righteous and forget our own humanness and not considered our own short comings, those we have hurt knowingly and unknowingly. What have you done to right those wrong? How have you risen up and ask for forgiveness? Or have you? Have you apologized? Or are you STUCK in the shame, guilt, self-disgust of your behavior and in so doing isolated yourself?

As human beings it is virtually impossible to live and not bruise others. However all is not lost as we can choose to live consciously, be present and mindful of our actions, words and deeds and the impact. It is wise to remind ourselves that words have power, no one likes being devalued, deliberately humiliated and continuously debased for poor choices and the consequences that followed as a result.

The reality is this, you may not be ready to forgive or hear an apology and life of the relationship as far as you are concerned is dead, there is nothing wrong with that. You are simply not there yet and the relationship irreparable. The same is true for those you may ask for forgiveness. You may not be forgiven. Your apology may not be accepted and the relationship irreparable in their eyes. The point is to take the necessary steps to heal and move into acceptance.

ACCEPTANCE
Acceptance does not mean all is well. It does not mean you are ok with what has happened. It does not mean you agree or are agreeable. It simply means you accept what is, what you cannot change, where you are not ready or willing to go. In short, "it is what it is" and wishing it wasn't does not make it not so.

What are your thoughts?
What say you?
Are you able to accept not being forgiven by someone you've hurt?

D.S.B.S Rhapsody

Dec 30, 2017

27 Pessimist or Optimist

Life - simple, complex, evolutionary, movement

Choices - everyday in every moment

Consequences - good, bad, ugly, irrevocable 

Experiences - Influencer, determinant, vision

Development - Choice, determination, infinite

Evolve - Constant, evoking

Whether pessimist or optimist these words hold true.
Life - simple, complex, evolutionary, movement
Choices - everyday in every moment
Consequences - good, bad, ugly, irrevocable 
Experiences - Influencer, determinant, vision
Development - Choice, determination, infinite
Evolve - Constant, evoking

(C) D.S.B.S.Rhapsody aka Rhapsodyphoenix

Dec 28, 2017

6 MOON OUTSIDE MY DOOR

Everyday I make a point to look up.
To see the moon, to see the stars.
Some days although they are there, 
they are not readily visible.
Other days they shout there presence, 
by showing their luminescent excellence.
Each time I am graced with there presence,
I say, Thank you for their continued luminescence,



A grey day that was not so grey


Dec 22, 2017

6 SEASONS GREETINGS

Blessings & Season Greetings.
May the love of this season let you know that you are loved and you are not alone.
Happiness is a choice.
Choose to be happy.
This year I put up our Christmas Tree.








Dec 3, 2017

10 EVERY NEW DAY IS AN OPPORTUNITY TO SHIFT

Blessings
Sunlight, Daylight, Sunset, Reset
Do not despair
Each new day is an opportunity to shift
To create, To recreate, A new beginning
To live a life that speaks to who you are.
Sunlight, Daylight, Reset, a new beginning





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